Sometimes, we hurt each other in the name of love. Sometimes, we have memories that are curved into our heart, so that even time can not wash the memory away. We cannot forget a person, not we want to forgive. Humbert is the person who are deeply in love with a memory, so that he falls in love with Lolita. His dangerous love is one cause of the tragedy. Lolita, a girl without girlhood, whose life is destroyed by two one, in which one man even breaks her heart. However, she is happy to live with her poor husband, because she wants to forgive and embrace the future.
No one wants to have painful memories. It's blessing that we couldn't love passionately. To live, is to forget. Sometimes, being a people without past is blessing. Why we want to have forced happiness? If we can't get, drop it. Life has everything, as long as we let nature take it course.
如果我不是正好在读这本书的时候开始养兔子,我恐怕不会意识到这个故事会与我本人有任何联系。我就是Humbert Humbert,Humbert the Tenderest,无条件地爱它们,它们就是我的洛。它们就像洛,任性,恶劣,不可捉摸,有时候让我控制不了地向它们发火,我就成了Humbert the Terrible——这样爱恨交织的心情,Humbert Humbert,我也懂得。我又会后悔,难过,想要抱着它们,给它们安慰。但是它们在我怀里发抖,我知道它们怕我,讨厌我,它们永远不会懂得我对它们的爱——但是我却不管不顾地要把它们禁锢在怀中,因为人啊人,怎么突然之间会涌起这样一种对毫无抗拒之力的弱者的占有欲,可鄙的,可悲的,又是无奈的,辛酸的,而我就成了Humbert the Miserable。